Living a Sex Positive Life with Angelique and John C. Luna

July 13, 2017

Aired Thursday, 13 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Living a Sex Positive Life with Angelique and John C. Luna

On this show, we explore all aspects of human sexuality with Angelique and John C Luna. We talk about the good and the bad, the health and healing benefits, the adventures, the relationships as well as the crimes and tragedies. Their mission is to educate, entertain and talk about that touchy topic that affects us all, sex.

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About the Guests: Angelique Luna and John C Luna

Angelique Luna is a sex coach, educator, entertainer and sexual abuse advocate. Her mission is making Living A Sex Positive Life a reality for everyone. She is a wife & mother to strong warrior who has overcome the harrowing experience of sex abuse. Angelique Luna is the host of Living A Sex Positive Life podcast with her husband John C Luna where she discusses all aspects and affects of sexual relationships. She is currently enrolled in the inaugural year of Kink Aware Therapist Training Program at the Kink Therapy Certification Institute.

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In his original career, John was an entrepreneur, author, professional educator and software developer. After 10+ years in the lifestyle, he has started a new chapter of his life educating others on alternative relationships and human sexuality. He lectures and coaches on non-monogamy, bisexuality, safe sexual practices, BDSM and other relationship & kink related topics. Along with his wife, Angelique Luna, he hosts the podcast, Living a Sex Positive Life with a mission to educate, entertain and talk about sex.

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Avoiding Predators in Tantra with Lucy Rowett

July 6, 2017

Aired Thursday, 6 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Avoiding Predators in Tantra: How to Stay Safe While Expanding Consciousness with Lucy Rowett

Tantra and conscious sexuality can be insanely transformational, but can be incredibly risky if you don’t have your eyes open. While there are many gifted teachers, there are also many predators. Lucy shares her best advice for avoiding the common pitfalls when starting your Tantric journey, while sharing her experience of reading the Love Tarot. Listen to her practical advice to stay safe and keep a critical mind when going into a workshop.

About the Guest: Lucy Rowett

Lucy Rowett is an eclectic soul who believes passionately in living a life that makes you juicy. She is a sex positive coach, writer and Tarot reader working specifically with women. She also sells pleasure products to women who want to finally feel pleasure in their bodies.

She believes sex, spirit and transformation are the keys to be your most shining self.

Her sex positive dream would be a world where radical acceptance of all orientations, desires and gender identities would be universal. She also dreams of seeing women be sexually empowered to audaciously claim their bodies.

Lucy loves writing, latin dancing, learning new languages and finding herself in new airports. She specializes in social media for sexuality professionals to get their message out into the world. When not dancing or travelling, she is usually found curled up with a cup of tea and a good book.



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Warrior Woman - A Path Away from Shame Toward Power

June 29, 2017

Aired Thursday, 29 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Warrior Woman - A Path Away from Shame Toward Power

We are living in extraordinary times. On both the material and spiritual level, there is a sense of things in flux. Our world feels overwhelming right now, doesn’t it? What are we to do, in this climate that is sometimes agressive, often separated from spirit, with very real risks in play?

This transformation calls to all of us. You have a tremendous amount of power and there is much you can do to be physically and spiritually ready for resilience. It sometimes feels like there is something blocking your power though, doesn’t it?

Very often, what blocks us is shame, and the value in holding on to shame is to try to assert control over our ability to belong. On the path of the Warrior Woman, then, the fight has to be in us and for us first before it can be for the world. The Warrior Woman belongs to herself first, and so releases shame and reclaims her power.

A warrior is strong, brave, courageous, and powerful. She risks losing things, burning bridges. A warrior risks getting hurt. But, she takes those risks because what she’s fighting against precludes the healthy existence of what she’s fighting for.

Do you value yourself enough to take those risks on your own behalf?

The fight is for YOU – for yourself, for your right to the best life for you, for space to flourish and for the peace and pleasure that you deserve.

About the Guest: Sarah Martin

Sarah Martin is a Warrior Woman, a Certified Sex Coach, and a badass. Today, she calls Warsaw, Poland home. She’s travelled to over 35 countries as a woman alone, and has studied 10 languages (so far). Relentless travel has been a defining feature of her life. As well as operating a private clinical practice, Sarah works at the Sex Positive Institute in Warsaw, Poland, presenting workshops and trainings.

Sarah’s favourite things in life relate to Erotic Fitness, including Playfighting, Orgasmic Running, and Pole Dance. She is utterly fascinated by the connection between fitness, nutrition, and vibrant sexual energy. Her first book, Orgasmic Running: A Feminine Practice for Pleasurable Wellbeing, is available on Amazon.

Additionally, Sarah Martin is the Executive Director of the World Association of Sex Coaches, the certifying body and professional association for sex coaches worldwide. At the Association, sex coaches and sexologists unite and support each other, creating a significant, cumulative impact on the world.

Her vision is that a world free of sexual shame will be a more peaceful, more loving, and more connected world.



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Thriving in Sex Work with Author Lola Davina

June 22, 2017

Aired Thursday, 22 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Thriving in Sex Work with Author Lola Davina

Martha welcomes longtime veteran of the sex industry, Lola Davina, to discuss Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry, her new self-help book for sex workers. Sex work is difficult emotional labor. Her new book offers support and self-care advice on managing the inevitable conflicting emotions that arise in this challenging work.

About the Guest: Lola Davina

Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for, a support website for cam models.




Navigating Consent with Kitty Stryker

June 15, 2017

Aired Thursday, 15 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Navigating Consent with Kitty Stryker, author of “Ask: Building Consent Culture”

Martha invites Kitty Stryker onto the show to discuss what consent culture is, why it’s important, and how it can challenge rape culture. Kitty has been a consent activist for over 6 years, working with alternative communities to combat abuse and create sustainable accountability practices. Martha and Kitty will explore the ways in which alternative sexualities embrace constructs of consent, and the ways in which they are still learning.

About the Guest: Kitty Stryker

Kitty Stryker is a Degenderette, writer, queer activist, and authority on developing a consent culture in alternative communities. She was the founder of, a website that ran for 4 years as a hub for LGBT/kinky/poly folks looking for a sex critical approach to relationships and which will be relaunched on 2017. Kitty also cofounded the artsy sexy party Kinky Salon London, as well as creating the award winning Ladies High Tea and Pornography Society, the SF based kink party Whippersnappers, and acts as head of cosplay for queer gaming convention GaymerX. Having finished “Ask: Building Consent Culture”, an anthology through Thorntree Press coming out in October, Kitty tours internationally speaking at universities and conferences about feminism, sex work, body positivity, queer politics, and more. She lives in Oakland, California with her wife, boyfriend, and two cats, Foucault and Nietzsche.

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Integral Tantra and Shamanism

June 8, 2017

Aired Thursday, 8 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Integral Tantra and Shamanism

Looking at ways various wisdom traditions from around the world meet can give us insights into human condition of both Waking Up and Growing Up. James will be presenting various maps that can help us gain understanding about the circumstances of our life as well as guide us to what next steps might be in reclaiming our life-force energy and bringing it towards it’s full potential.

About the Guest: James Stevenson

James’s passion is to help call forth our human potential and our soul. His weave brings together 20 years experience in techniques, practices and information from the cutting edge of Neuroscience, Tantra, Biodanza, Shamanic & Energy Work, Integral theory and Taoist practices to create a spirituality that is rooted in the body. His evolutionary approach is to work on all lines, levels, states and parts of ourselves in bringing forth our fullest potential.

His work in meditation and tantra work draws on many different traditions and paths he has studied from Kashmir Shaivism, Baul mysticism, Advaita Vedanta, Vajrayana Buddhism, Integral systems and Neo-tantra. He was very much influenced in the early days by the enlightened master Osho and enjoyed spending time in Pune and the Humaniversity.

His shamanic work includes being Vision Quest rites of passage guide, holding Sweatlodge Ceremonies as well as Sacred Cacao Rituals. He has been dancing Biodanza since 2003 and now works as a teacher and a didactic teacher (qualified to teach other teachers in Biodanza Schools). He also leads ecstatic dance sessions, and ran the popular Awaken conscious night club in Edinburgh for many years.

As a festival organizer he is involved in 6 International Tantra festivals in both Bali,India, Holland, Portugal, California and East Coast America as well as Dance and Biodanza festivals in both Ibiza and Delhi. He was also a Regional Organizer ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and remains an active faculty member.


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Animated Sex: The Spirituality of Eros with Dr. Jakob Pastoetter

June 1, 2017

Aired Thursday, 1 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Animated Sex: The Spirituality of Eros with Dr. Jakob Pastoetter

Although there was never in the history of mankind more visual sex and general information about sex readily available, many people suffer from low libido and general disinterest in sex. Sexologists usually try to cure this with even more information and concentration on sex, and for many people that might be helpful because they have no words of their own to articulate their sexual needs and desires. But there are those others for whom this doesn’t work because they suffer from a kind of sex poisoning. This can only be cured by going back to the roots which aren’t anatomical, technical, or visual but primordial, archaic, and spiritual. Sex as “just sex” quickly becomes empty and shallow if the connection to Eros gets cut. Eros is not just the chubby little angel with bow and arrow but is the primordial god of procreation who emerged self-formed at the dawn of creation. Eros was the driving force behind the generation of new life in the cosmos. With Martha Lee Jakob Pastoetter will discuss his importance for cultivating polarity, nourishing creativity, and developing spiritual connectivity with life to discover our full sexual potential. Excursions will lead to Astrology, Sex Magick, Qigong, Tantra and the Jungian concepts of Animus and Anima.

About the Guest: Dr. Jakob Pastoetter

Dr. Jakob Pastoetter started as a very spiritually interested teenager, delved then into cultural anthropology, developed a taste for sexology while doing research at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, wrote his doctoral thesis on Hardcore Pornography and the Constrain to Self-constrain Mechanisms of the Civilizing Process it is entangled in – Question: Why were Sexually Explicit Pictures only developed as an Entertainment Medium in the Postindustrialized Western societies. He got his Ph.D. in Education at Humboldt University, and finally became an ABS certified Clinical Sexologist at the American Academy of Clinical Sexology in 2003, teaching and tutoring there since 15 years while doing research, media work, and sex, couple, and life counseling as President of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexuality Research. He started organizing the prestigious biannual conferences of DGSS. Since 2014 he also provided sexual counseling for bi-national couples in English and German via Skype.

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Right now he is the Editor of a German-English book series “Sexuality Crosswise” with Springer Science and is writing a book on “The Development of German Sex Education”.

Make More Love Today

May 25, 2017

Aired Thursday, 25 May 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Make More Love Today

For the second time, Make Love Week ran May 14 – 21 as part of the celebrations for Masturbation Month in May. How does one keep love, intimacy and sex alive in relationships? Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching gives you a snapshot of how you can do so, based on the 8 videos she released as part of Make Love Week. In the last 15mins of the show, Martha shares the developments of GLBT (Gay, Lebsian, Bisexual, Transgender) movement in Asia , specifically Taiwan, Indonesia and Singapore.

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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and intimacy coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant Journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OM Times Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013.

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Sex Rituals to Raise Sexual Excitement with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

May 18, 2017

Aired Thursday, 18 May 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Sex Rituals to Raise Sexual Excitement with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

Rituals are part of every aspect of our lives. Incorporating rituals instead of routines into your sexual life can raise the level of excitement, help you to create a deeper connection with your partner(s) and turn your sex into worship. Routines are usually things we do without thinking so much and this can lead to boredom. Ritual requires 100% attention, being focused on now. Most of the rituals Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey incorporates create sacred space and bring the divine into self and lover. The ritual can be a simple as bathing each other before playing together or as complex as setting up a dungeon and enacting a intricate BDSM session. Adding deliberately charged energy to any sexual session intensifies and electrifies.

About the Guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a Sex & Intimacy Coach, Psychologist, Speaker, Educator and Author. She works with individuals, couples and polyamorous groups to help them find and create their ideal intimate relationships. She works with all genders and sexual orientations. Dr. Lori Beth has a specialty in healing sexual trauma and helping people move beyond survivor and back into full sexual life. She is kink knowledgeable, sees sexual energy as divine energy and some forms of kink as the easiest way to raise large quantities of energy.

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Sex Addiction is Not a Diagnosis

May 11, 2017

Aired Thursday, 11 May 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Sex Addiction is Not a Diagnosis

There is no proven support for either sex addiction or hypersexuality. These are phony concepts which are used in sex negative ways. This does not mean some people are not out of balance or OCD (Obsessive–compulsive disorder). CBT (Cognitive behavioral therapy) is the most effective way to deal with imbalances. Sex addiction clinics overcharge for a condition that does not exist. Both the DSM and Aasect have soundly rejected both concepts. Unfortunately AAMFT still supports these harmful concepts.

About the Guest: Dr. Roger Libby

Dr. Roger Libby is a sexologist, an AASECT certified sex therapist and a sexual troublemaker. He was a visible leader of the second sexual revolution from 1963 to 1975. He coined the term “sex positive” in 1976, and he started National Orgasm Week during Spring Break in the mid-1970’s (first week of Spring). He pioneered the Pre-Sex Discussion to emphasize mutual consent in 1993, and he has been on The NBC Nightly News, Oprah Winfrey (twice) and CNN News Night. Dr. Libby hosted “The Pleasure Dome” radio show on a rock station in Atlanta for three years. He is the author of numerous academic and popular books, including Sex from Aah to Zipper and The Naked Truth About Sex (both at Amazon). Dr. Libby gave a TED talk on the next sexual revolution, and he is leading The Sex Positive Enthusiasm Revolution, which is already playfully underway!