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Aired Sunday, 26 June 2016, 9:00 PM ET

In today’s modern world, could the traditional dating model use a revolutionary overhaul? Well, that is exactly what Pouline Middleton decided after her divorce. Instead of enduring the frustration of trying to get all of her needs fulfilled by a single man, Pauline decided that what she really needed was three men: one for conversation, one for sex, and one handyman to work around her house.

Love Coach, Pouline Middleton, joins Sylvia to talk about open relationships and the modern love concepts that are changing the way that men and women date and fall in love.

About the Guest Pouline Middleton

Pouline Middleton has been a Modern Love Coach since 2010. Danish by birth, she holds a M. Sc. in Economics and has worked extensively around the world, having lived in Paris, Algeria, Hong Kong, and visited 36 states in the U.S. Pouline worked for several companies in sales and marketing until she decided to become a coach.

Pouline actually lived with the three-men model for a period in her own life. She has also conducted scores of in-depth interviews with people who live in either open or polyamorous relationships. She is 53-years old, and has an 18-year old daughter with her first husband before they divorced after six years of marriage. She then had a number of long- and short-term relationships, leading her to invent the three-men model that she used to find love.

In 2013 Pouline Middleton met the Danish videographer and still photographer Steen Larsen. They fell in love and married in 2014. They live on an old farm outside of Copenhagen, Denmark.

Pouline Middleton’s book, One Woman Three Men: A Novel About Modern Love and Sex, was first published in in 2010 in Denmark, and is her first book to appear on the American market. Pouline has written two other novels and a handbook of love called Seven Roads to Love, available as an ebook and print on demand.

To learn more about Pouline Middleton, visit: www.modernloveandsex.com