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Aired Thursday, 24 August 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Shining a light on Infidelity and Healing with Renelle E. Nelson

Renelle Nelson mission is to shine a light on infidelity by starting the conversation about monogamy. Many couples assume monogamy without discussing what that term means to them and what are their expectations. Renelle is Infidelity Recovery Coach that focuses on the affair by giving the couples who want to reconnect tools and education needed to recommit or individuals who decide to leave the tools to not take the trauma with them and learn to love again. It’s time to end the emotional storm in your head and get the tools and education you need to calm your storm and heal from the trauma of betrayal.

About the Guest: Renelle E. Nelson

Renelle E. Nelson LMFT, CST, Wisconsin’s First African American Certified Sex Therapist. Renelle has an eclectic therapy background ranging from working with seniors to adolescents. After seeing the need to rebuild the foundations of the family unit especially the couple , she opened her private practice Kaleidoscope Services LLC to offer a nonjudgmental, safe , educational and nurturing environment to assist couples and individuals in their relationship in and out the bedroom. She self-proclaimed herself a Masturbation Enthusiast teaching whenever she can on the benefits of self-care and exploration. Her passion is now to educate and enhance the lives of those who suffer with Sexual pain and dysfunction by assisting them with getting their sexual voice back. Renelle saw the devistating effects of infidelity in her personal life and in the community, she became a Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach to assist couples who wanted to recommit to their relationship after an affair by offering them a 7 step program providing the tools and education to assist them in their journey.

To get more information about Renelle you can visit her website: Kaleidoscopeservicesllc.org

To learn more about affair aftercare you can visit: affairaftercare.com

Social Media:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/noirsxtherapist

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noirsxtherapist/ and https://www.instagram.com/affairaftercare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/infidelityrecovery/ and https://www.facebook.com/kaleidoscopeservices/

Aired Thursday, 17 August 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Sexuality and Spirituality - 9th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Dr. Martha LeeThis episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What has this host for Eros Evolution, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would she suggest for listeners out there?

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and intimacy coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant Journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OM Times Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013.

You can read more about Martha by visiting her website at http://www.eroscoaching.com. Download her free ebook for women at at http://www.eroscoaching.com/reclaiming-your-sexuality/ or sign up for her three-party video series on premature ejaculation for men at http://www.eroscoaching.com/rgsgfree.

Aired Thursday, 10 August 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Healing from Child Sexual Abuse with Brooke Woon BPsych, PGCouns, PGPsych

Dr. Martha welcomes Brooke Woon to discuss the how the impact of child sexual abuse (CSA) can last long after the abuse has finished. Further conversation will explore practical ways to heal from child sexual abuse, and create a happy fulfilling life. She believes no matter what happens it’s always possible to heal.

About the Guest: Brooke Woon BPsych, PGCouns, PGPsych

Brooke is a passionate advocate for victims of child sexual abuse, and an educator on the subject. Brooke has worked as a Psychologist with adult and child victims of child sexual abuse, and male and female perpetrators of child sexual abuse. She is the author of the book ‘I believe you – How to heal from child sexual abuse’, which is written for adult survivors of child sexual abuse, and is also being embraced by practitioners who help these victims.

Brooke has worked with people who have lived through trauma, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, phobias, ADHD, social difficulties, addictions, sexuality and intimacy challenges, relationship, family and anger issues, parenting struggles, intellectual impairment and more.

Brooke has worked for various mental health programs, community and government agencies, including the Western Australian Police Force, and has had her own practice. Brooke has extensive experience in individual, couple and child counselling. She enjoys public speaking, creating and running workshops, and support groups on a variety of mental health issues and self-help topics.

You can read more about Brooke and her work on brookewoon.com. Brooke’s book ‘I believe you – How to heal from child sexual abuse’ is available from booktopia at https://www.booktopia.com.au, or through major bookstores. If you would like further support she has a Facebook page and group called Healing from Child Sexual abuse at https://www.facebook.com/Healing-from-Child-Sexual-Abuse-1516894428546574/, https://www.facebook.com/groups/understanding.csa/ and https://twitter.com/BrookeWoon.

Aired Thursday, 3 August 2017, 4:00 PM ET

The Reality of Porn with Dr. Jakob Pastoetter

Few topics are more controversial than Porn. This is because Porn stands so much in the intersection not only of so many different points of view what sexuality should be about but also of what constitutes a visual medium and a piece of art in general, what are their messages, and how do they exert influence on our real world experiences and interactions. As with many other things, you can only try to approach from different angles to get an idea of what constitutes the “Reality of Porn” for different people, rather than to decide once and for all what it “really” is.

In this show German Sexologist Dr. Jakob Pastoetter will answer these five questions to get a clearer picture:

1) what makes porn porn;
2) tell us about ethical porn;
3) is porn addictive;
4) what are the harmful effects of porn;
5) what are porn perception differences between men and women – preferences/ views/ attitudes;
6) my partner watches a lot of porn. Is this cheating?

About the Guest: Dr. Jakob Pastoetter

Dr. Jakob Pastoetter started as a very spiritually interested teenager, delved then into cultural anthropology, developed a taste for sexology while doing research at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, wrote his doctoral thesis on Hardcore Pornography and the Constrain to Self-constrain Mechanisms of the Civilizing Process it is entangled in – Question: Why were Sexually Explicit Pictures only developed as an Entertainment Medium in the Postindustrialized Western societies. He got his Ph.D. in Education at Humboldt University, and finally became an ABS certified Clinical Sexologist at the American Academy of Clinical Sexology in 2003, teaching and tutoring there since 15 years while doing research, media work, and sex, couple, and life counseling as President of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexuality Research. He started organizing the prestigious biannual conferences of DGSS. Since 2014 he also provided sexual counseling for bi-national couples in English and German via Skype.

His websites are www.sexologie.org, www.sexualitaetleben.de, https://www.facebook.com/erosarising/, https://twitter.com/jpastoetter, and soon www.liveyoursexuality.com.

Right now he is the Editor of a German-English book series “Sexuality Crosswise” with Springer Science and is writing a book on “The Development of German Sex Education”.

Aired Thursday, 27 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

The Inability to Receive: The Story Inside The Story

In this episode, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching shares two personal stories involving her mother to facilitate this discussion on the effects on our inability to receive. She also reflects on the dynamics of mother-daughter or parent-child dynamics that play out. These stories are intended to be used for your own reflection on whether you have difficulties in receiving in your life, and are “killing love”. Perhaps you are in a hurry to get things done, that you take charge, and dismiss, overrule and dominate over others in your life? Listen to these personal stories and reflect so you can claim a life of love and power.

Subscribe to Martha’s:

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drmarthalee

Mailing list: www.eroscoaching.com

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and intimacy coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant Journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OM Times Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013.

You can read more about Martha by visiting her website at http://www.eroscoaching.com. Download her free ebook for women at at http://www.eroscoaching.com/reclaiming-your-sexuality/ or sign up for her three-party video series on premature ejaculation for men at http://www.eroscoaching.com/rgsgfree.

Aired Thursday, 20 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

You’ve Been Lied to… Women LOVE Sex: Feminine Sexual Ecstasy Secrets with Jan Robinson, M.A.

Jan Robinson will share some of the greatest secrets of feminine sexuality ever known. As a woman, have you ever wondered why sex wasn’t as great or deep or meaningful or exciting that you know in your heart it COULD be?

Jan will reveal the top reasons why you’ve been blocked. Hear about little-known foreplay sequences that honor your yin sexual arousal style and have the potential to blossom your sexuality into states of great joy and ecstasy, taking you into direct contact with the Goddess within you.

About the Guest: Jan Robinson, M.A.

Jan Robinson, M.A., Sex & Intimacy Coach, Author, and Tantra Expert, adores foot rubs, classical music, and men who love women. Jan’s mission is to end the WAR of the sexes and encourage the WOW in the dance between the masculine and feminine. Her vision is a world in which men and women know how to rock each others’ worlds with love, sex, and intimacy that heals, empowers, and uplifts. She is the founder of TantricJoy, where she reveals ancient tantric secrets for becoming a master lover and tapping into women’s infinite capacity for pleasure. Mastering Jan’s proven methods will spark a sex life beyond your wildest dreams.

In her new book, Your Amazing Itty Bitty Have More Sex Book, Jan distills, in 15 secrets, what she’s discovered about what it takes to truly fulfill a woman sexually. Jan has profoundly surprised and delighted not only herself with these findings, but hundreds of other women and men in workshops and private trainings in the U.S. and Europe.

Website: www.havemoresexbook.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shaktijan

Twitter: @sexcoachjan

Email: jan@tantricjoy.com

Aired Thursday, 13 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Living a Sex Positive Life with Angelique and John C. Luna

On this show, we explore all aspects of human sexuality with Angelique and John C Luna. We talk about the good and the bad, the health and healing benefits, the adventures, the relationships as well as the crimes and tragedies. Their mission is to educate, entertain and talk about that touchy topic that affects us all, sex.

Facebook: Livingasexpositivelife

Website: www.livingasexpositivelife.com

Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/living-a-sex-positive-life

iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/living-a-sex-positive-life/id1197124228?mt=2

About the Guests: Angelique Luna and John C Luna

Angelique Luna is a sex coach, educator, entertainer and sexual abuse advocate. Her mission is making Living A Sex Positive Life a reality for everyone. She is a wife & mother to strong warrior who has overcome the harrowing experience of sex abuse. Angelique Luna is the host of Living A Sex Positive Life podcast with her husband John C Luna where she discusses all aspects and affects of sexual relationships. She is currently enrolled in the inaugural year of Kink Aware Therapist Training Program at the Kink Therapy Certification Institute.

Facebook: Angelique Luna

Twitter: @MsAngeliqueLuna

Instagram: MsAngeliqueLuna

In his original career, John was an entrepreneur, author, professional educator and software developer. After 10+ years in the lifestyle, he has started a new chapter of his life educating others on alternative relationships and human sexuality. He lectures and coaches on non-monogamy, bisexuality, safe sexual practices, BDSM and other relationship & kink related topics. Along with his wife, Angelique Luna, he hosts the podcast, Living a Sex Positive Life with a mission to educate, entertain and talk about sex.

Facebook: John C Luna

Twitter: @JohnCLuna

Aired Thursday, 6 July 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Avoiding Predators in Tantra: How to Stay Safe While Expanding Consciousness with Lucy Rowett

Tantra and conscious sexuality can be insanely transformational, but can be incredibly risky if you don’t have your eyes open. While there are many gifted teachers, there are also many predators. Lucy shares her best advice for avoiding the common pitfalls when starting your Tantric journey, while sharing her experience of reading the Love Tarot. Listen to her practical advice to stay safe and keep a critical mind when going into a workshop.

About the Guest: Lucy Rowett

Lucy Rowett is an eclectic soul who believes passionately in living a life that makes you juicy. She is a sex positive coach, writer and Tarot reader working specifically with women. She also sells pleasure products to women who want to finally feel pleasure in their bodies.

She believes sex, spirit and transformation are the keys to be your most shining self.

Her sex positive dream would be a world where radical acceptance of all orientations, desires and gender identities would be universal. She also dreams of seeing women be sexually empowered to audaciously claim their bodies.

Lucy loves writing, latin dancing, learning new languages and finding herself in new airports. She specializes in social media for sexuality professionals to get their message out into the world. When not dancing or travelling, she is usually found curled up with a cup of tea and a good book.

Website: www.juiceandjasmine.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JuiceandJasmine/

Twitter: @juiceandjasmine

Instagram: @juiceandjasmine

Aired Thursday, 29 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Warrior Woman - A Path Away from Shame Toward Power

We are living in extraordinary times. On both the material and spiritual level, there is a sense of things in flux. Our world feels overwhelming right now, doesn’t it? What are we to do, in this climate that is sometimes agressive, often separated from spirit, with very real risks in play?

This transformation calls to all of us. You have a tremendous amount of power and there is much you can do to be physically and spiritually ready for resilience. It sometimes feels like there is something blocking your power though, doesn’t it?

Very often, what blocks us is shame, and the value in holding on to shame is to try to assert control over our ability to belong. On the path of the Warrior Woman, then, the fight has to be in us and for us first before it can be for the world. The Warrior Woman belongs to herself first, and so releases shame and reclaims her power.

A warrior is strong, brave, courageous, and powerful. She risks losing things, burning bridges. A warrior risks getting hurt. But, she takes those risks because what she’s fighting against precludes the healthy existence of what she’s fighting for.

Do you value yourself enough to take those risks on your own behalf?

The fight is for YOU – for yourself, for your right to the best life for you, for space to flourish and for the peace and pleasure that you deserve.

About the Guest: Sarah Martin

Sarah Martin is a Warrior Woman, a Certified Sex Coach, and a badass. Today, she calls Warsaw, Poland home. She’s travelled to over 35 countries as a woman alone, and has studied 10 languages (so far). Relentless travel has been a defining feature of her life. As well as operating a private clinical practice, Sarah works at the Sex Positive Institute in Warsaw, Poland, presenting workshops and trainings.

Sarah’s favourite things in life relate to Erotic Fitness, including Playfighting, Orgasmic Running, and Pole Dance. She is utterly fascinated by the connection between fitness, nutrition, and vibrant sexual energy. Her first book, Orgasmic Running: A Feminine Practice for Pleasurable Wellbeing, is available on Amazon.

Additionally, Sarah Martin is the Executive Director of the World Association of Sex Coaches, the certifying body and professional association for sex coaches worldwide. At the Association, sex coaches and sexologists unite and support each other, creating a significant, cumulative impact on the world.

Her vision is that a world free of sexual shame will be a more peaceful, more loving, and more connected world.

Website: www.sexcoachsarah.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexcoachsarah

Twitter: @SexCoachSarah

Email: sarah@goodsexlifestyle.com

Aired Thursday, 22 June 2017, 4:00 PM ET

Thriving in Sex Work with Author Lola Davina

Martha welcomes longtime veteran of the sex industry, Lola Davina, to discuss Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry, her new self-help book for sex workers. Sex work is difficult emotional labor. Her new book offers support and self-care advice on managing the inevitable conflicting emotions that arise in this challenging work.

About the Guest: Lola Davina

Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com, a support website for cam models.

Website: LolaDavina.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Lola_Davina

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010208507672